is it too late to heal?

im kind of mad right now. i took the AOL poll on what rights should be allowed to gay couples, and i found that 50% of ppl who voted said that they should have no legal rights to marry or enter into a civil union. 50%!!!! like seriously.. im straight, and i cannot understand what the big deal is. i mean, what do straight people have to lose by allowing gay couples to marry. it almost makes me want to boycott marriage. almost. cos i realllllly wanna have a wedding. i dont think i would be able to have enough self control to sacrifice my wedding for a cause. but yah. thats my rant for now. adios.